That Thang

Yesterday we had a real interesting couple on Divorce Court. The woman on the show actually left a guy who stopped being a drug dealer and became a motrgage broker.

Her reason: He lost his swagger.

I get the bad boy thing. I do. They have a certain full throttle, super-maleness about them. A certain THANG that even I enjoy when I am in the room with one. The thing is I never would want to have one. They aren't shy or ashamed about who they are and what they do. They tell you what they think about women and relationships. You can see the romantic damage they leave in their wake all around them. Why in the world would I want to stand in line to see a movie called "Let Me Stomp on Your Heart"

When I was younger (and better looking) these guys would come after me all ofthe time. And when I say come after that is exactly what I mean. They'd keep coming and coming and coming. They did not take no well. I had to stock pile a whole aresnal of insults for them. And still . . . But I never took romantic aggression for an incredible desire for ME. I knew it had nothing to do with me being wonderful and it had everything to do with them 'catching their prey.'

I believe that if a person shows you who he is you should believe him. So my questions are these:

Ladies if you run around with them why? Do you not see what they do? Or do you just don't care? Is that THANG so good it doesn't matter what sles they do to you while you're getting it.? Or do you think you are the one right woman out there that can change him?

And guys, if you are one, do you believe this is the way things should be? Do you ever wonder if you hurt the women you're with? Do you think monogamy is an unnatural state?

And for the guys who don't: Do you wish you were more like them? Does the women's behavior in this regard annoy you? Do godo guys really finish last?

I find this topic fascinating