Tom Joyner Weekend

Hello,

Tomorrow I am off to The Tom Joyner Family Weekend in Florida where I will serve on a panel about relationships and the family. I am really looking forward to it. I must say I see a lot of tension between men and women on so many issues:. Other baby's momma drama. Divorce. Anger on both sides: Men who think women take advantage of them with child support or only date them if they pay bills. Women who think that men never stay faithful, expect them to pay all the bills and do all of the house work. I recently heard for the first time a phrase called the '$400 solution'. Have any of you heard that? The way I heard it it's used to say to a woman "I'm not paying child support if you don't take the $400 solution to this unwanted pregnancy." Then there is the angry black woman claim; that so many of us are hollering screaming and difficult to deal with.

I know how I think and feel on a lot of relationship topics. But I always like to hear from others so I can know what's going on with everybody else and challenge my own ideas. So what do you think? Is there something you'd love me to bring to the table at the conference?

Talk to me.