Thank you

Hello everyone,

I would like to thank those of you who wrote me about my book. I am glad it helped. I exposed a lot of my family's big secrets in the book and was a little concerned about that but I wanted to share some of the great lessons I learned and in order to do that I had to explain how I learned them.

When people see me on TV they see strong and in control. I wanted them to know how I got there. I was weak and ridiculous for sooo long! It's funny now but it wasn't then and I just want to to encourage folks as much as I could.

In addition some of you have asked about my article Losing 19. You can get it off my website www.judgetoler.com and download it for free.

Again, I'm glad if anyone has been helped by the things that I write. I try to be forthcoming and truthful. I also hope you understand again why I can't respond personally for requests for help and advice. Like I said before, I gets LOTS of requests and just don't have the time or the information to give them a meaningful response. I will however get voice to some themes as they crop up as I did with 19 and inlove (my earlier post).

Take care.