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Hi.

I see many of you share my feelings about Bernie Mac. What a talent. We'll miss him.

As you know I get a lot of questions so here's a few answers:

1. I get a lot of questions about MySpace and passwords. Should you mate or potential mate let you have their password etc. Just recently someone told me he was thinking of marrying a woman but she won't give him her MySpace password and asks me should he be worried. First, all of this is new to me eventhough it is really just a new version of the old issue "Do you trust each other?" My problem is I'm not up on techno-etiquette. My husband never goes in my purse and he doesn't read my mail. He could if he wanted to but he doesn't because he trusts me and respects my privacy. It's just a social thing. You don't go in a woman's purse or read their mail. I don't know how personal this thing is. My hubby could have my password but he's not in the least bit interested. So I guess my asnwer is do you trust her? Is she just big on personal space and privacy or does she give off indications that she's not trustworthy? Have you talked to her about it, told her how you feel and had a conversation about it? Is it a big deal? And if so why? It's not about passwords. Its about communication and trust if you have the first two the last one ceases to be an issue.

2. A couple people have asked how do they get over the anger they have for their ex for the kids sake. That's important and there's no simple answer to it. I have suggestions but it will take me some time to put it down. I'll consider it, put it on my web site and let you know when its there.

3. For those of you who have gone to the bookstore and can't find "My Mother's Rules" both Barnes and Noble and Borders should have order stock. In other words ask them to order it and they will. Otherwise you can get it off of amazon.com.

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