Thank You

Hello.

You know I get a lot of questions and requests from people who are having difficulties. First I am very gratified that you value my opinion. But remember anyone's opinion is just that. You have to evaluate all advice from me or anyone else.

Of course, like I keep saying I can't respond to all of the questions. Just themes. Some people write with serious issues very personal to them. Information and advice is everywhere. I encourage those of you dealing with difficult things to search out experts in your area for the answers. There is no quick fix to a lot of things. Effort is often required over a long period of time. That's true about most things worth doing. Just make sure you evaluate the person giving advice. If I am looking for direction on how to raise my kids I don't take it from people who kids are unruly unless they are telling me what they did wrong. Just because people have an opinion doesn't mean its a good one. Look at where they are and how they got there before you listen to what they say.

Having said that i would like to thank those of you who have written me with good news. I haven't acknowledged that and I should. So if you were all excited about a new job or getting in to school and dropped by to tell me about it (and you know who you are) I say CONGRADULATIONS - Good for you That kind of thing is inspiring and I applaud your efforts to move forward.

Go for it.